The upside down pineapple is widely used as a symbol, like donkeys representing democrats and elephants representing republicans. The “alternative lifestyle” has many meanings and definitions. In fact, each person that participates in an alternative lifestyle defines it in a way that is uniquely them. For some, it is full of sexual fantasies, practices, set of boundaries, and experiences. Those you have had and those you would like to have. For others, it is a primary category they use to identify those people they don’t understand and find don’t match their “moral compass.” Yet. Behind closed doors, their search terms are “amateur cuckolding couples.” The upside down pineapple is used in the alternative lifestyle to symbolize to others that you are in the lifestyle and open to play. It doesn’t represent what level of play you are into and what your own dynamic of play might be. How can it? Like the term “alternative lifestyle,” the upside down pineapple has so many varying interpretations. It does not describe if, as a couple, you’re only into voyeurism, or soft-swap, or more advanced version of swinging, cuckolding, or even a stag and vixen couple. I suppose that’s part of the fun part. Find out what you are into, and then figure out who else in the room is like-minded. But how?