Author: nikki

Cuckolding vs. Stag & Vixen

You may or may not know that cuckolding is a popular fetish. Not for me, but it has certainly gained popularity in recent years. Cuckolding is even the second most popular porn search term on the internet. Though I do consider myself open-minded and do enjoy watching my partner have sex with someone else, I […]

The Pineapple Lifestyle in Three Easy Steps

The upside-down pineapple is widely used as a symbol, like donkeys representing democrats and elephants representing republicans. The “alternative lifestyle” has many meanings and definitions. In fact, each person that participates in an alternative lifestyle defines it in a way that is uniquely them. For some, it is full of sexual fantasies, practices, set of […]

Body Confidence When Swinging

I recently discussed body confidence with one of my friends, A, who’s a single girl. Although A isn’t a swinger, she’s quite curious about the lifestyle and swinger scene, and I told her I’d take her with me to a club that was suited to her particular fetish when they reopen. She confided in me […]

Separation of Sex and Love

Our thoughts and feelings. It has been essential to put into words our thoughts and feelings about being swingers to clarify what it means for our relationship with each other – and what it means for our relationship with others. It has also been important from day one that we both agreed on how we […]